Healing occurs when we feel seen, heard & loved.
Transformation occurs when we are celebrated.
Online Individual Therapy for Adults in California
Hi, Iām Barbi Ino
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
For me therapy is all about teamwork. You and I will be cultivating a beautiful garden in your soul.
With patience, weekly meetings, and consistent hard work, we will remove some overgrown weeds in your life that are keeping you stuck.
As you practice therapy tools and insights, more growth will take root until your life becomes a beautiful, flourishing garden to nourish your soul.
Laughter is an essential part of therapyāitās good medicine!
If you are struggling with communication, multiracial identity, struggling with the narcissist in your life or want to cultivate your inner spirituality, Iām here to help. Letās cultivate who you were always meant to be!
Our sessions are focused on you.
This is your time to get new tools to move your life in the right direction. Therapy will provide a safe space to get in touch with and express your thoughts, feelings, needs, and receive encouragement.
Therapy is always āInsightā + āActionā = āChange.ā If youāre ready to roll up your sleeves and work hard with me, Iām energized and ready to meet you!
Working with me you will discover
That you are worthy of love and care.
That your emotions heal when they are validated.
That you donāt have to be perfect.
That you can stop feeling shame when your share your story with safe people who respond with empathy and understanding.
I work well with these concerns
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Silencing the Inner Critic
You worry all the time about if people like you or not. Youāre afraid to make a mistake. You are hardest on yourself. You have some creative ideas but your inner critic stops you. Youād love to find some peace of mind.
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Recovery from Narcisstic Abuse
Something is very āoffā about your relationship but you wonder if itās you or them. You finally discover itās them: gaslighting, manipulating, āforgettingā, ignoring you, getting enraged when confronted with a true flaw. Itās time to get some expert help to heal from this type of abuse.
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Job, School Stress
Youāve experienced unexpected changes in job, school, or significant relationships, causing stress and burn-out. Your career plans havenāt come to pass as planned. Youāre wondering if this is the right time to change jobs.
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Multiracial Relationships
You and your partner are from different cultures and youāre arguing more lately. Youāre struggling with family members due to generational differences. You battle with shame, guilt, and low self-esteem. Youād love to find a tribe of friends you feel comfortable with.
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Spiritual Focus; Christian Counseling
You want to explore more about your spiritual side. Youāre looking for a Christian therapist who understands Christian beliefs and values. Youāve experienced spiritual abuse from a community you thought was safe. You would love to find someone who can listen to you with kindness, understanding, and no judgments.
MY STORY
Before I became a Californian, I grew up with snowy winters and summers of family fishing with my Dad in the beautiful lakes and streams of Colorado.
A love for travel sparked an interest in understanding how people from various countries view life, food, music, art, and relationships. It was inspiring to me to see such beauty in diversity.
I worked as a legal secretary for 10 years in top notch law firms in southern California, where I gained administrative and assertiveness skills running a busy attorneyās office. I experienced corporate America first-hand and bring that understanding into connecting with my clientsā work stress and career concerns.
A few words about my professional training
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Working 38 years in various clinical settings, including a counseling center for families whose incomes are below the federal poverty threshold, a domestic violence recovery center, Christian churches, and private practice have provided a solid foundation of compassion, training, and insight into the emotional, psychological, socioeconomic, cultural, and spiritual needs of my clients.
M.A. Theology, Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA
M.A. Marriage & Family Therapy, Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA
Licensed by the State of California, License No. MFC30392
PREPARE/ENRICH Certified Facilitator
Guest Lecturer JFK University āAsians and Asian-Americansā